It is you. All you. There are those that seem to always have some injustice done to them rather than taking ownership of what occurs in their lives. Some keep changing their scenarios or partners rather than having a responsible level of self-awareness and being tuned in to developing themselves. Do not make the mistake of being unhappy because of what someone has done to you. It is more likely that you are unhappy with who you are. When you come to grips with the fact that you control every narrative that enters your mind, your powers of self-worth, empathy, generosity, and love grow. Buck up and own it.